Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection

Invite readers to reflect on their broad takeaways and initial reactions to the book.

1.  Which of the communication strategies in Supercommunicators felt most immediately applicable or enlightening to you?

2. How does Supercommunicators compare to other self-help books that you've read about communication and connection in terms of accessibility or insightfulness, such as David Brooks’s How to Know a Person?

3. Which of the three conversation types (practical, emotional, or social) do you think is most underemphasized in modern communication?

Help readers relate the book’s lessons to their own life experiences.

1. Can you think of a specific moment when—or not applying—the “matching principle” impacted the outcome of one of your conversations?

2. What personal fears or beliefs might be holding you back from using the vulnerability techniques Duhigg recommends?

3. When have you used deep, values-based questions to build trust or resolve conflict? What was the result?

4. In what environments or relationships are you most sensitive to non-verbal communication? How does that affect your behavior?

5. Reflecting on your communication journey, what key events or relationships have shaped the way you speak and listen today?

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